The Right Relationship Won't Make You Whole
It starts in a dream. Michael is running down a steep, dark, snowy trail, easy because he isn't controlling it, just going where the path wants. Then it turns sexual and strange, and he wakes asking what it means. That opens a full life review of his sexuality: the man in Asheville who once thought Michael was hitting on him, an honest look at being okay with being homosexual or bisexual or whatever it is. Underneath all of it, one thread. What he was ever reaching for was the feminine in him wanting the masculine, and the masculine wanting the feminine. All sexuality, he lands, is the desire for connection within your own being. Nothing else outside.
Which is where the title comes in. "I want to be whole," he says, catching it live, "but I've got to go have this relationship because I don't feel whole." So wholeness was never the priority. You can't be in balance with another person while your own masculine and feminine are dominating each other. First you receive, then you act.
Audree takes it into her own family: her mother never quite trusting her father, the same fear repeating in her that a partner won't be enough, then the light bulb, live while Michael talks, that it's her own inner masculine and feminine. Then she pushes past the frame: it isn't two, it's three, mind, creator, source, meeting in one incarnation. "Where you stand is holy ground."
In wholeness, there is no sexual preference. Bonobos, our nearest animal cousins, share almost all our DNA and have sex every direction, and Audree's science teacher had told her long ago that being homosexual isn't a label, it's a primal instinct. It's just one more plain pleasure of being alive, like eating a mango, with no lack driving it.
Then the work itself. Awareness, Audree says, is the whole technology: nothing to do, no praying, just holding a frequency until the old structures dissolve. And it answers the title: we can't accept that we're already perfect, so the practice is to keep looking wherever you're sure you're not. Then Audree, straight to the listener: you've never done anything wrong. The gift was always inside the thing you judged as the mistake.
00:00 Dream Trail Begins
00:53 Dream Turns Sexual
01:52 Sexuality Life Review
03:16 Inner Masculine Feminine
04:30 Receiving Before Action
06:41 Sexuality as Unity
08:42 Childhood Pattern Imprints
11:02 Projector Conditioning Insight
14:00 Trinity Beyond Duality
22:02 Relationship Distortion Signal
24:16 We Are Mammals
25:15 Bonobos and Primal Sex
27:26 Podcast Wrap Banter
27:35 Bonobo Pleasure Culture
28:30 Sex as Sacred Enjoyment
29:54 Stop Seeking Wholeness Outside
31:29 Perfection and Ego Healing
33:35 Mind and Neuroplasticity
36:34 Holy Ground Awareness
40:27 Awareness Mechanics Explained
43:41 Transformational Audios Frequency
47:25 Release Guilt and Shame
50:09 Beyond Human Limitation Beliefs
53:32 Closing Mantra and Farewell
Which is where the title comes in. "I want to be whole," he says, catching it live, "but I've got to go have this relationship because I don't feel whole." So wholeness was never the priority. You can't be in balance with another person while your own masculine and feminine are dominating each other. First you receive, then you act.
Audree takes it into her own family: her mother never quite trusting her father, the same fear repeating in her that a partner won't be enough, then the light bulb, live while Michael talks, that it's her own inner masculine and feminine. Then she pushes past the frame: it isn't two, it's three, mind, creator, source, meeting in one incarnation. "Where you stand is holy ground."
In wholeness, there is no sexual preference. Bonobos, our nearest animal cousins, share almost all our DNA and have sex every direction, and Audree's science teacher had told her long ago that being homosexual isn't a label, it's a primal instinct. It's just one more plain pleasure of being alive, like eating a mango, with no lack driving it.
Then the work itself. Awareness, Audree says, is the whole technology: nothing to do, no praying, just holding a frequency until the old structures dissolve. And it answers the title: we can't accept that we're already perfect, so the practice is to keep looking wherever you're sure you're not. Then Audree, straight to the listener: you've never done anything wrong. The gift was always inside the thing you judged as the mistake.
00:00 Dream Trail Begins
00:53 Dream Turns Sexual
01:52 Sexuality Life Review
03:16 Inner Masculine Feminine
04:30 Receiving Before Action
06:41 Sexuality as Unity
08:42 Childhood Pattern Imprints
11:02 Projector Conditioning Insight
14:00 Trinity Beyond Duality
22:02 Relationship Distortion Signal
24:16 We Are Mammals
25:15 Bonobos and Primal Sex
27:26 Podcast Wrap Banter
27:35 Bonobo Pleasure Culture
28:30 Sex as Sacred Enjoyment
29:54 Stop Seeking Wholeness Outside
31:29 Perfection and Ego Healing
33:35 Mind and Neuroplasticity
36:34 Holy Ground Awareness
40:27 Awareness Mechanics Explained
43:41 Transformational Audios Frequency
47:25 Release Guilt and Shame
50:09 Beyond Human Limitation Beliefs
53:32 Closing Mantra and Farewell
Creators and Guests
Host
Audree Tara Sahota
I was born with mystical gifts I learned to hide from a world that wasn't ready, the weird kid teaching Samadhi at slumber parties while trying to make sense of being different. Almost a decade in formal healing training, a graduate of the Barbara Brennan Collage of Healing. Five years on a Chicago medical team, healing what Western medicine couldn't touch. In 2009 I received Evolutionary Energetics, yet discovering it and embodying it are completely different. I've done the messy work: dissolved my ego, healed my deepest patterns, trusted guidance I couldn't see when everything rational screamed not to. I'm not a guru with all the answers. I'm a real person who happened to be born remembering cosmic truth, walked the uncomfortable path of living it, and learned how to make it practical.
Host
Michael K Sahota
Raised with logic and science, I started as the ultimate skeptic. In my AI PhD program, I discovered that human vision and cognition is controlled hallucination; we literally make up reality. After years in software architecture and management roles leading organizational transformations, the pattern became clear: the consciousness of the leader creates culture, culture creates outcomes. I hit the truth: I was the limiting factor in every change initiative. Meeting Audree transformed everything as our opposite approaches unlocked something extraordinary. Through 100+ leadership trainings, we didn't create this work, we received it, download by download, in an unfolding evolutionary process. I've done the messy work: learned to trust direct experience over logic, followed guidance that made no rational sense. I'm not a guru with all the answers. My passion is the mechanics of creation. I'm the bridge between worlds, translating cosmic downloads into step-by-step practical tools.
